9 Reasons Bonobos Are Our New Feminist Role Models
Native to the Democratic Republic of the Congo, bonobos are famously peaceful and affectionate creatures. Here are 9 reasons why they're also rad feminist role models.
1. Females dominate their society
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Bonobos, along with chimpanzees, are the closest biological relatives to humans. But in bonobo society, girls truly run the world.
2. They're the only ape that doesn't kill
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No need to worry about creepers or serial killers if you're one of these peace-loving apes.
3. They have sex for pleasure—without guilt or shame
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Bonobos are very open about sexual expression, engaging with partners of both sexes in a variety of positions not common in the rest of the animal world. You do you, bonobos.
4. They appreciate the natural female form
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Bras optional, body hair encouraged.
5. Everyone knows when they're turned on—and when they're not
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There's little confusion about whether a female bonobo is ready for sex—her genital area will swell if she's looking for a partner. If she's not, no one tries any funny business.
6. They pay more attention to bonding opportunities than to threats
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Cuddling and grooming are top priorities for these primates, keeping their bond to one another strong.
7. They are empathetic and affectionate
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Bonobos don't hide their feelings.
8. They're welcoming to outsiders
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Bonobos easily empathize with outsiders and quickly welcome them to their group. They don't alienate—instead, they share their resources as a means of building each other up.
9. They're pretty darn cute
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You can't argue with that face!